I agree. And I kind of saw the epilogue in that way as right, yes, Harry's creating his own family, finally, and having a crapton of kids (orphans included) that he can share that love with. He's making that familial love real.

Then I get MORE pissed because if that's the case then Ginny is just Harry's gateway to familial love. Talk about a castaway.

I don't know. I had to rethink my opinion after talking to my mum and brother - both of which are just as into HP as I am if not more but have never been into fandom. They both loved the epilogue and thought it felt "right".