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seventhe1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
Um. Well, since I define betrayal as "not being honest" rather than the traditional "cheated on me"... I guess I still wouldn't be happy about it either way, but I also think that a lot of things can be dealt with as long as people are honest with each other. It would depend on the situation. As long as someone is honest with me there's no such thing as betrayal. I don't control anybody else in this world and if he really loves someone else, that's the way it is. That's not betrayal. Going behind my back, though; that's a form of betrayal. This isn't a very good answer to the question.
I mean, if you mean "betrayed me to the Chinese Mafia and left me to die," well, yeah, I'd be a little pissed, and after I turned into MacGuyver and escaped I'd totally kick his ass.
2. What will you do if you do not share the same feelings as the person who likes you?
I'm honest about that kind of stuff (see #1 re: honesty). I'll tell him or her flat-out. It's just the way things work.
3. What will your dream wedding be like?
Simple and small, with none of the bullshit that comes along with so many modern weddings. Fuck garters, fuck 300 bridesmaids, fuck the dollar dance. I don't even want a damn dress (namely, because I will trip and fall). I do like the idea of the big cake, though. Who doesn't like cake? Mmm, cake. Shit, I'd get married for a good cake right now.
4. Are you confused as to what lies ahead of you?
Who isn't?
Confused, yes. Worried? Not really.
5. Do you plan on aiming high, career and grade-wise?
It asks the girl working in research and going to grad-school part-time. Ha, ha. Funny, because I never would've answered this question as "yes", but my current situation really says otherwise.
6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone else?
Both are blessed and should be appreciated. To me, loving people and finding ways to express that is really important. But you should never overlook how nice it is to have the love of someone else. Can I vote both?
7. If the person you like does not accept you, would you continue to wait for them to change their feelings?
I ... uh? If somebody doesn't "accept" me, I'm not really sure how I can change that. And I think banking on someone to change how they feel about something is pretty much always a bad bet. I also don't really like the concept of "waiting" for anybody.
I don't think I get it. Why would you like somebody who didn't accept you in the first place?
8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
Be honest. Unless it's just a crush that'll go away in a couple weeks or something not-serious. If there are serious feelings there, I'd come out and tell the person, because who wants to sit on that for the rest of their life?
9. Is there anything that has made you unhappy recently?
HAHAHAHAHAHA NO OF COURSE NOT WHY DO YOU ASK
10. What do you want most in life?
"ORLANDO BLOOM. Or, well, happiness."
I'm keeping this answer, because I approve.
11. Which do you prefer--writing, or drawing?
I probably prefer writing overall, but that's because I'm always happier with the product.
12. If you find out that your best friend is going out with your boyfriend/girlfriend, how would you react?
Is? As in behind my back? Now that's a betrayal (see #1). I'd be less upset about the cheating and more upset about the fact that neither one could tell me that there were problems in the relationship/friendship which led to the cheating thing. But I would be genuinely and seriously upset about that. I need trust.
13. Who is currently the most important person to you?
Me? Sorry if it sounds selfish, but that's the way it is. I try not to live my life in a selfish way, but really, in the end, I'm still young and single and taking care of myself.
Maybe my cat. That's what I'll answer.
14. Describe yourself in one word.
KITTY
15. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
I think you could be happy either way. This is a silly question. Is it a good marriage or a crappy one? Do I have a good fulfilling life as a single woman? I think if I could provide for myself alone and I hadn't found anybody, I'd be fine with that. Then again, I think if a marriage was good enough, who cares if you're poor. Rich vs Poor and Married vs Single have not a lot to do with Happy vs Unhappy. Moving on.
16. How do you deal with stress?
lolz. Ranting/venting to Rina/Nikki/Katy, coffee and/or tea and/or chocolate, dissolving into a crying ball of crying; writing, sleeping
17. Would you give your all in a relationship?
I always do.
18. If you were an actor/actress and got offered the lead role in a bollywood film that had a terrible plot and a terrible director but an amazingly hot co-star who'd be your romantic interest, but simultaneously was offered the lead role in a hollywood film that had an amazing plot and an amazing director but an ugly co-star (whom you also hated) who'd be your romantic interest, which would you choose?
Is there a sex scene? More information plz
19. What type of friends do you like?
"People who actually like me."
I'm keeping this answer, too. I've had a lot of terrible, terrible friends in my life and I'm ridiculously picky about my friends now. which is why I don't have many
20. If you played a prank on someone, and he/she fell for the trick, what would you do?
Laugh my ass off?
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Not tagging anyone specific, except maybehilldo because he hasn't posted recently and I'm afraid he died. But take it if you'd like.
Um. Well, since I define betrayal as "not being honest" rather than the traditional "cheated on me"... I guess I still wouldn't be happy about it either way, but I also think that a lot of things can be dealt with as long as people are honest with each other. It would depend on the situation. As long as someone is honest with me there's no such thing as betrayal. I don't control anybody else in this world and if he really loves someone else, that's the way it is. That's not betrayal. Going behind my back, though; that's a form of betrayal. This isn't a very good answer to the question.
I mean, if you mean "betrayed me to the Chinese Mafia and left me to die," well, yeah, I'd be a little pissed, and after I turned into MacGuyver and escaped I'd totally kick his ass.
2. What will you do if you do not share the same feelings as the person who likes you?
I'm honest about that kind of stuff (see #1 re: honesty). I'll tell him or her flat-out. It's just the way things work.
3. What will your dream wedding be like?
Simple and small, with none of the bullshit that comes along with so many modern weddings. Fuck garters, fuck 300 bridesmaids, fuck the dollar dance. I don't even want a damn dress (namely, because I will trip and fall). I do like the idea of the big cake, though. Who doesn't like cake? Mmm, cake. Shit, I'd get married for a good cake right now.
4. Are you confused as to what lies ahead of you?
Who isn't?
Confused, yes. Worried? Not really.
5. Do you plan on aiming high, career and grade-wise?
It asks the girl working in research and going to grad-school part-time. Ha, ha. Funny, because I never would've answered this question as "yes", but my current situation really says otherwise.
6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone else?
Both are blessed and should be appreciated. To me, loving people and finding ways to express that is really important. But you should never overlook how nice it is to have the love of someone else. Can I vote both?
7. If the person you like does not accept you, would you continue to wait for them to change their feelings?
I ... uh? If somebody doesn't "accept" me, I'm not really sure how I can change that. And I think banking on someone to change how they feel about something is pretty much always a bad bet. I also don't really like the concept of "waiting" for anybody.
I don't think I get it. Why would you like somebody who didn't accept you in the first place?
8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
Be honest. Unless it's just a crush that'll go away in a couple weeks or something not-serious. If there are serious feelings there, I'd come out and tell the person, because who wants to sit on that for the rest of their life?
9. Is there anything that has made you unhappy recently?
HAHAHAHAHAHA NO OF COURSE NOT WHY DO YOU ASK
10. What do you want most in life?
"ORLANDO BLOOM. Or, well, happiness."
I'm keeping this answer, because I approve.
11. Which do you prefer--writing, or drawing?
I probably prefer writing overall, but that's because I'm always happier with the product.
12. If you find out that your best friend is going out with your boyfriend/girlfriend, how would you react?
Is? As in behind my back? Now that's a betrayal (see #1). I'd be less upset about the cheating and more upset about the fact that neither one could tell me that there were problems in the relationship/friendship which led to the cheating thing. But I would be genuinely and seriously upset about that. I need trust.
13. Who is currently the most important person to you?
Me? Sorry if it sounds selfish, but that's the way it is. I try not to live my life in a selfish way, but really, in the end, I'm still young and single and taking care of myself.
Maybe my cat. That's what I'll answer.
14. Describe yourself in one word.
KITTY
15. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
I think you could be happy either way. This is a silly question. Is it a good marriage or a crappy one? Do I have a good fulfilling life as a single woman? I think if I could provide for myself alone and I hadn't found anybody, I'd be fine with that. Then again, I think if a marriage was good enough, who cares if you're poor. Rich vs Poor and Married vs Single have not a lot to do with Happy vs Unhappy. Moving on.
16. How do you deal with stress?
lolz. Ranting/venting to Rina/Nikki/Katy, coffee and/or tea and/or chocolate, dissolving into a crying ball of crying; writing, sleeping
17. Would you give your all in a relationship?
I always do.
18. If you were an actor/actress and got offered the lead role in a bollywood film that had a terrible plot and a terrible director but an amazingly hot co-star who'd be your romantic interest, but simultaneously was offered the lead role in a hollywood film that had an amazing plot and an amazing director but an ugly co-star (whom you also hated) who'd be your romantic interest, which would you choose?
Is there a sex scene? More information plz
19. What type of friends do you like?
"People who actually like me."
I'm keeping this answer, too. I've had a lot of terrible, terrible friends in my life and I'm ridiculously picky about my friends now. which is why I don't have many
20. If you played a prank on someone, and he/she fell for the trick, what would you do?
Laugh my ass off?
- - -
Not tagging anyone specific, except maybe
hilldo because he hasn't posted recently and I'm afraid he died. But take it if you'd like.
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